First of all, just to talk a little bit about a person upon which I think, it's very significant in relation to the family and it's a very everybody knows of this Hadith, because it's
quoted almost every Juma and it's a person that a Uthman ibn Mathum said that when he first became Muslim, he actually became Muslim because he loved the Prophet (SAW)
and the Prophet(SAW) used to always be explaining Islam and finally he became ashamed every time he saw him, that he became a Muslim to please him, and he said
that in that ended higher maruti nice of life now and he said without internet
doctor POV had a resident Patti Adam the
email really didn't come into his heart
until this ayah was revealed and its
really the probability the depth of the
ayah is awesome but unless banana
analysis in la banda llamo Bradley would
Excel our recipe and without a commands
to Adam which is justice and xn which is
making things beautiful the Italian
fella and commanding to taking to
helping and giving to relatives when
Yanina and in fact shaggy balloon
carrier buddy Yahoo come down to come to
that government and almost an entire
prohibits at a faction which is
everything you stop by with the colonel
anything that people don't like to hear
about that is factual things that are
really the unmentionables Unspeakables
when moo cow everything rejected in a
healthy society that's probably some
milk on is the outside of Maui its web
people reject when their mounts are
healthy and this is why the Federation
was commanded to 1mm to command when
people know what's common knowledge it's
now in this mayonnaise its opposite like
the fertilizing itself in the end of
time the Maru be kind of mellow par and
remain how it becomes morrow this is
what's happened and this is the state
health and then finally a body which is
a question and buggies in a good word it
comes from the root meaning is to desire
and so the major of depression
oppression of one personal remember use
the results because they want something
that that person or that country has
right this is really the essence of
oppression is taking what is not yours
what are you sayin telling in mahogany
and the essence of Justice is giving
everything it's due giving everything
else dude and then Allah said that he is
telling us
do this amended that we might remember
now just in relation to the families you
look at these atoms the first thing
about the family is the ambien has to be
based on justice there has to be justice
for instance unless to panera taba has
made the human the mail generally
stronger than the female physically the
mail has generally this is obviously you
get your banker out and it's going to
you know you'll get your deviations from
the mean right but normally you are
dealing with strength that a female is
is mess strong physically and I'm
talking about Ruth is perfect because
women have other types of physical
traits that mental map for instance a
child when if a man had to give birth to
children they said there wouldn't be any
more people so because of that physical
strength that has to be added in other
words and ruler becomes unjust when we
turn dresses and one of the things that
are lunar has that you don't have
is an army the river has an army and
when he uses the oddity to impress
people he becomes of Ireland when this
is the army to protect people he's just
so it uses his strength to protect his
women than was a last minute but it he
uses a straight to impress his woman
he's abroad and the biggest model is
found he's the he's the head of the body
me his email and not the people have the
power they never even with serrano he's
better talk about that they all wanted
to be like really might makes right this
is the methodology of the time might
makes right so in many houses a melon
ruled the roost not true justice but
true the power of his arm might makes
right shut up just dude I say and don't
ask questions right and I know there's
million that word these type of things
may be more abusive now not to be
totally unfair to the men there's also
women that do the same thing to the men
because I women can have a man who's
very patient and doesn't
that and should abuse that type of
health or that patients and the public
ruined about that he will about women we
had a profiling wine shop that they were
ungrateful for the grid company of that
husband and complaining about him and
then agreement that become discontent
with my husband because he doesn't make
enough money or he doesn't have this or
he doesn't so these are the roots of
troubles in with family you know we
can't always put it one side and it will
be words but words but often you have
this problem of an onion husband and
throwin had a right as yet who live a
righteous woman and she asks a lot to
save her phone fill out from his
impression her allah as he asked you for
a house to be felt in general so i hope
that has to be justice in the house now
this doesn't simply related to the red
and artillery ID about nana to i and the
premise and i should have said but he
come on little tiananmen and how did his
body is paralyzed and they asked him
about that and he said it was a man who
did not show justice between his two
wives and eleanor was founded by two
wives and repenting to give them a li he
would count the scenes with each piece
to make sure
acne the same this is not a joke these
people have talked about they knew he
was coming so justice not simply to the
white the children the poets of Iceland
someone saw a man kiss his son and the
daughter was there and he said mom sucks
opinion you haven't been just between
the two if you kiss the one you have to
kiss the other this is teaching Heather
you have to have justice the cheddar and
demand justice now not only does not
command to justice did you make say I
said in other word not just being just
but going above and beyond the just with
the just cause we're and actually
remembering the riots to give it to the
other one and about this I adult when I
wasn't ever taught ourselves that men
that have a degree right well i'm gonna
give anything that will reserve
we represent a team that Loretta the
women have the same the rights are the
same as the men its equal that's
leprechaun said the right hand the same
as a minute and then it says without any
me now dollar said men have one degree
away with it when amerigas who is given
the temira perform the ability time the
center of our armies called on Romero
from the internal of the pond because of
the dryer that was answered by the third
when he said along my little weird the
with ed teacher the interpolation
fun and give him understanding of this
beat you cannot pass him the Dodger that
are not necessary Family and Community
Luca Luca he said the pathology our
minds given our men over women is the
damaja of telecom that they relinquish
their right to the one in a
people know everything that's due to her
but they don't expect everything that's
due to less it's an amazing
interpretation think about that and who
is better example than the messenger
Allah who is better if you want to see a
better example who are unified with a
message of allah the writer commented in
material came to the family of the
purpose of myself and they said that she
melts looked miserable china mechanics
be rotten by ever claris her face looked
bad they said not need you to hurry over
bill they said what's wrong with you and
he said under the whole society one
malade for partying what's wrong with me
my husband as for the day time he fast
and after the night time his play all
night long in other words she wasn't
given were right and here's a man we
wish the river wish they had men not
giving advice like that bank I mean
somebody so preoccupied with her walk
the perils of my son had of men even met
her brought to him and he said young man
and he was upset with her he said LF
studious Radhika are yer example and he
said no me hace Novotny said Korea I'll
tell me then follow me in other words
the power supply to know did not do that
and he's not better than a messenger
Allah they said the next time they saw
his wife she was wearing nice clothes
and she was in a good state he took the
messenger Allah told him to do so that
has to be xn there has to be Excel
inside the house the man has to be a
maxima and the woman has to be a Messina
and if there's no exam with justice you
don't have a relationship that at least
there is no depression like there's no
because mom comes from xn xn is one of
the things that it comes from that when
you let her out you want to be mixed in
and sort of a man who loves his right he
wants to do etc and vice versa and also
to the children but each other a lot not
only does not have to be dusters and XL
but there has to be the extended family
in other with Islam encourages us to
strengthen the bars not simply about a
medium running this country to have
nuclear family but beyond them clear for
me to let them go why there's two things
about this weather is that the first
thing in which we learn to be human is
within our own immediate family but that
humanity has to move the arm the
immediate family in other ways the
socialization has to take place and will
be on it to where we begin to learn to
live with other people and the first
people will be able to learn to live
with is booting para bots are only
cousins our uncle's RS the person has
said that the uncle is the same as the
far
aunt is the same as the mother they are
the same prepared you have to show them
their righteousness in your piety these
things have to be displayed and then a
modular data set whenever an infection
or become a less bandwidth added
prohibits fact she'll there cannot be if
you have an owner that has added XM and
is treating the blood bank balance then
that is American malice but they have
many animal cop in other words that the
society not only has to have all the
positive attribute but it must have
actively engaged in including negative
qualities within the cultures and within
the societies and this is why our newest
fad shall note our and buzzy Allah
reminds us that perhaps we might take
exhortation so I want to just quickly go
over some basic things about the shop
the first thing to remember is personal
itself comes from an Arabic word which
means to bind together and a seer is a
prisoner and in the sense each one of us
is a prisoner about family the family
itself is something that you can get out
and I'm talking about blood farms
initially in terms of marriage that are
not
worse in circumstances in which a merits
can't at work and this is from the
blessings of this Dean because of the
Christians prohibitive divorce and it
became a big problem they used to have
ruler that needed the Pope to annul
marriages because they wanted to just
get rid of a woman or she wasn't
providing heir to the throne mr. famous
that I'm wicked church house because
King Henry the hell wouldn't give him a
difference aging for these many the
Spanish woman couldn't give a child and
the Spanish millions mother move as the
Prince of Spain was very close to the
park and so the park was in this double
bond and this is the duty now you see so
he wouldn't give a dispensation from
Henry the eighth one of his advisers
told him seven times make your own
church so he did he said that's a good
idea we called anglican church
anglo-saxons and that's what it became
and that's why the Christians now in
England father they don't follow the
Catholic tradition that's why the Irish
are still comics because they said
forget at first you convert us to
Catholicism now you're going to save
them Academy Catholics anymore so it's
time finding them been going on since
there are all right both very simple
solution they all become a son the king
could have gotten a second wife couldn't
maintain the first
no more thing and everything's fine
right it's some songs problems that's
what it does and get rid of the para
frightened he is a problem right
seriously I mean don't get rid of a life
that's a Turkish man tried to do you get
in trouble if you think about it because
people like a stupid whore do something
captain they took like you know the
answer yeah sure mom tell you that come
about this red carpet they ask you trips
all right you know what you said up to
take that may allow destroy these people
and then this won't make you happy I
they took the tape though certainly said
Muslims they cut stratum in it says yes
you more wirelessly a new problem in our
own kind of X and then this is my bitch
wat right my wife wrote this I mean it
was talking about well Superman is
completely framed fred samara for
another one there is unbelievable and
it's more polite and shouldn't even be
making light of it because it's they
could do it to anybody there was this is
their game with it's like with these
things so that's right at the clarified
but they could still be who cares ready
for all right which is a certain point
you just thought that our thumb all
right and we were in the kitchen
he's of towners right I love you on a
panel of the Terios come on and this is
what happened to the Muslim right it's
true you know tomorrow no comment well I
for all the family so this is no adamant
that this is what you know it's not
really came to protect the family and to
create an environment in which the words
of Allah otherwise conducive the
environment is conducive to emotional
almost catatonic if you have think about
this if you have a situation where
there's strife within a family that was
fighting between the husband and the
wife this puts a steely look if there
are it's like people fear they are
constantly in a state of turmoil and
it's not going to be secure right Lydia
came to bring the king of the people and
if people are not living acquaintances
on the environment that takes place
inside the household is disastrous
because it results in there being an
unsettled situation show them suffer
women suffer and also be the husband
suffered everyone suffers so the
situation of the family is something
that I think is grossly neglected we're
reflecting the rights and
responsibilities with an emphasis on
responsibilities and just time that a
little bit about where we should be
going in terms of our own area here the
first thing to remember that the
American society is a society that
really in many ways is designed to
destroy the family just to give you some
examples there's no real good in this
country there is no they create these
fast communities that you can go you can
rent like an apartment where they create
this false community setting there
in the center what is community there's
no community you live there 10 years you
never know you're late you won't know
its name you won't know I'm not making
this up because all of you have been in
this situation how can javis from Islam
the right of the neighbor people should
at least know their neighbors name they
should be communication between them now
part of this is the television and the
Muslims should just get rid of it and
i've seen so many time i know that there
are some people in this community we've
done that because they came to me they
told me you notice since i got rid of
the television my life totally changed i
have time i read worth i spend more time
with my family there's people that
opponents i know people but there's many
people you look at the man you work from
he go to the Miller as seven in the
morning he come back at seven at night
he sit down in front of the television
no conversation between the family no I
mean first of all how many time now
they're there already debunking that in