On being kind to women and children

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Event Name: On being kind to women and children
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First of all, just to talk a little bit about a person upon which I think, it's very significant in relation to the family and it's a very everybody knows of this Hadith, because it's

quoted almost every Juma and it's a person that a Uthman ibn Mathum said that when he first became Muslim, he actually became Muslim because he loved the Prophet (SAW) 

and the Prophet(SAW) used to always be explaining Islam and finally he became ashamed every time he saw him, that he became a Muslim to please him, and he said

that in that ended higher maruti nice of life now and he said without internet

doctor POV had a resident Patti Adam the

email really didn't come into his heart

until this ayah was revealed and its

really the probability the depth of the

ayah is awesome but unless banana

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to Adam which is justice and xn which is

making things beautiful the Italian

fella and commanding to taking to

helping and giving to relatives when

Yanina and in fact shaggy balloon

carrier buddy Yahoo come down to come to

that government and almost an entire

prohibits at a faction which is

everything you stop by with the colonel

anything that people don't like to hear

about that is factual things that are

really the unmentionables Unspeakables

when moo cow everything rejected in a

healthy society that's probably some

milk on is the outside of Maui its web

people reject when their mounts are

healthy and this is why the Federation

was commanded to 1mm to command when

people know what's common knowledge it's

now in this mayonnaise its opposite like

the fertilizing itself in the end of

time the Maru be kind of mellow par and

remain how it becomes morrow this is

what's happened and this is the state

health and then finally a body which is

a question and buggies in a good word it

comes from the root meaning is to desire

and so the major of depression

oppression of one personal remember use

the results because they want something

that that person or that country has

right this is really the essence of

oppression is taking what is not yours

what are you sayin telling in mahogany

and the essence of Justice is giving

everything it's due giving everything

else dude and then Allah said that he is

telling us

do this amended that we might remember

now just in relation to the families you

look at these atoms the first thing

about the family is the ambien has to be

based on justice there has to be justice

for instance unless to panera taba has

made the human the mail generally

stronger than the female physically the

mail has generally this is obviously you

get your banker out and it's going to

you know you'll get your deviations from

the mean right but normally you are

dealing with strength that a female is

is mess strong physically and I'm

talking about Ruth is perfect because

women have other types of physical

traits that mental map for instance a

child when if a man had to give birth to

children they said there wouldn't be any

more people so because of that physical

strength that has to be added in other

words and ruler becomes unjust when we

turn dresses and one of the things that

are lunar has that you don't have

is an army the river has an army and

when he uses the oddity to impress

people he becomes of Ireland when this

is the army to protect people he's just

so it uses his strength to protect his

women than was a last minute but it he

uses a straight to impress his woman

he's abroad and the biggest model is

found he's the he's the head of the body

me his email and not the people have the

power they never even with serrano he's

better talk about that they all wanted

to be like really might makes right this

is the methodology of the time might

makes right so in many houses a melon

ruled the roost not true justice but

true the power of his arm might makes

right shut up just dude I say and don't

ask questions right and I know there's

million that word these type of things

may be more abusive now not to be

totally unfair to the men there's also

women that do the same thing to the men

because I women can have a man who's

very patient and doesn't

that and should abuse that type of

health or that patients and the public

ruined about that he will about women we

had a profiling wine shop that they were

ungrateful for the grid company of that

husband and complaining about him and

then agreement that become discontent

with my husband because he doesn't make

enough money or he doesn't have this or

he doesn't so these are the roots of

troubles in with family you know we

can't always put it one side and it will

be words but words but often you have

this problem of an onion husband and

throwin had a right as yet who live a

righteous woman and she asks a lot to

save her phone fill out from his

impression her allah as he asked you for

a house to be felt in general so i hope

that has to be justice in the house now

this doesn't simply related to the red

and artillery ID about nana to i and the

premise and i should have said but he

come on little tiananmen and how did his

body is paralyzed and they asked him

about that and he said it was a man who

did not show justice between his two

wives and eleanor was founded by two

wives and repenting to give them a li he

would count the scenes with each piece

to make sure

acne the same this is not a joke these

people have talked about they knew he

was coming so justice not simply to the

white the children the poets of Iceland

someone saw a man kiss his son and the

daughter was there and he said mom sucks

opinion you haven't been just between

the two if you kiss the one you have to

kiss the other this is teaching Heather

you have to have justice the cheddar and

demand justice now not only does not

command to justice did you make say I

said in other word not just being just

but going above and beyond the just with

the just cause we're and actually

remembering the riots to give it to the

other one and about this I adult when I

wasn't ever taught ourselves that men

that have a degree right well i'm gonna

give anything that will reserve

we represent a team that Loretta the

women have the same the rights are the

same as the men its equal that's

leprechaun said the right hand the same

as a minute and then it says without any

me now dollar said men have one degree

away with it when amerigas who is given

the temira perform the ability time the

center of our armies called on Romero

from the internal of the pond because of

the dryer that was answered by the third

when he said along my little weird the

with ed teacher the interpolation

fun and give him understanding of this

beat you cannot pass him the Dodger that

are not necessary Family and Community

Luca Luca he said the pathology our

minds given our men over women is the

damaja of telecom that they relinquish

their right to the one in a

people know everything that's due to her

but they don't expect everything that's

due to less it's an amazing

interpretation think about that and who

is better example than the messenger

Allah who is better if you want to see a

better example who are unified with a

message of allah the writer commented in

material came to the family of the

purpose of myself and they said that she

melts looked miserable china mechanics

be rotten by ever claris her face looked

bad they said not need you to hurry over

bill they said what's wrong with you and

he said under the whole society one

malade for partying what's wrong with me

my husband as for the day time he fast

and after the night time his play all

night long in other words she wasn't

given were right and here's a man we

wish the river wish they had men not

giving advice like that bank I mean

somebody so preoccupied with her walk

the perils of my son had of men even met

her brought to him and he said young man

and he was upset with her he said LF

studious Radhika are yer example and he

said no me hace Novotny said Korea I'll

tell me then follow me in other words

the power supply to know did not do that

and he's not better than a messenger

Allah they said the next time they saw

his wife she was wearing nice clothes

and she was in a good state he took the

messenger Allah told him to do so that

has to be xn there has to be Excel

inside the house the man has to be a

maxima and the woman has to be a Messina

and if there's no exam with justice you

don't have a relationship that at least

there is no depression like there's no

because mom comes from xn xn is one of

the things that it comes from that when

you let her out you want to be mixed in

and sort of a man who loves his right he

wants to do etc and vice versa and also

to the children but each other a lot not

only does not have to be dusters and XL

but there has to be the extended family

in other with Islam encourages us to

strengthen the bars not simply about a

medium running this country to have

nuclear family but beyond them clear for

me to let them go why there's two things

about this weather is that the first

thing in which we learn to be human is

within our own immediate family but that

humanity has to move the arm the

immediate family in other ways the

socialization has to take place and will

be on it to where we begin to learn to

live with other people and the first

people will be able to learn to live

with is booting para bots are only

cousins our uncle's RS the person has

said that the uncle is the same as the


aunt is the same as the mother they are

the same prepared you have to show them

their righteousness in your piety these

things have to be displayed and then a

modular data set whenever an infection

or become a less bandwidth added

prohibits fact she'll there cannot be if

you have an owner that has added XM and

is treating the blood bank balance then

that is American malice but they have

many animal cop in other words that the

society not only has to have all the

positive attribute but it must have

actively engaged in including negative

qualities within the cultures and within

the societies and this is why our newest

fad shall note our and buzzy Allah

reminds us that perhaps we might take

exhortation so I want to just quickly go

over some basic things about the shop

the first thing to remember is personal

itself comes from an Arabic word which

means to bind together and a seer is a

prisoner and in the sense each one of us

is a prisoner about family the family

itself is something that you can get out

and I'm talking about blood farms

initially in terms of marriage that are


worse in circumstances in which a merits

can't at work and this is from the

blessings of this Dean because of the

Christians prohibitive divorce and it

became a big problem they used to have

ruler that needed the Pope to annul

marriages because they wanted to just

get rid of a woman or she wasn't

providing heir to the throne mr. famous

that I'm wicked church house because

King Henry the hell wouldn't give him a

difference aging for these many the

Spanish woman couldn't give a child and

the Spanish millions mother move as the

Prince of Spain was very close to the

park and so the park was in this double

bond and this is the duty now you see so

he wouldn't give a dispensation from

Henry the eighth one of his advisers

told him seven times make your own

church so he did he said that's a good

idea we called anglican church

anglo-saxons and that's what it became

and that's why the Christians now in

England father they don't follow the

Catholic tradition that's why the Irish

are still comics because they said

forget at first you convert us to

Catholicism now you're going to save

them Academy Catholics anymore so it's

time finding them been going on since

there are all right both very simple

solution they all become a son the king

could have gotten a second wife couldn't

maintain the first

no more thing and everything's fine

right it's some songs problems that's

what it does and get rid of the para

frightened he is a problem right

seriously I mean don't get rid of a life

that's a Turkish man tried to do you get

in trouble if you think about it because

people like a stupid whore do something

captain they took like you know the

answer yeah sure mom tell you that come

about this red carpet they ask you trips

all right you know what you said up to

take that may allow destroy these people

and then this won't make you happy I

they took the tape though certainly said

Muslims they cut stratum in it says yes

you more wirelessly a new problem in our

own kind of X and then this is my bitch

wat right my wife wrote this I mean it

was talking about well Superman is

completely framed fred samara for

another one there is unbelievable and

it's more polite and shouldn't even be

making light of it because it's they

could do it to anybody there was this is

their game with it's like with these

things so that's right at the clarified

but they could still be who cares ready

for all right which is a certain point

you just thought that our thumb all

right and we were in the kitchen

he's of towners right I love you on a

panel of the Terios come on and this is

what happened to the Muslim right it's

true you know tomorrow no comment well I

for all the family so this is no adamant

that this is what you know it's not

really came to protect the family and to

create an environment in which the words

of Allah otherwise conducive the

environment is conducive to emotional

almost catatonic if you have think about

this if you have a situation where

there's strife within a family that was

fighting between the husband and the

wife this puts a steely look if there

are it's like people fear they are

constantly in a state of turmoil and

it's not going to be secure right Lydia

came to bring the king of the people and

if people are not living acquaintances

on the environment that takes place

inside the household is disastrous

because it results in there being an

unsettled situation show them suffer

women suffer and also be the husband

suffered everyone suffers so the

situation of the family is something

that I think is grossly neglected we're

reflecting the rights and

responsibilities with an emphasis on

responsibilities and just time that a

little bit about where we should be

going in terms of our own area here the

first thing to remember that the

American society is a society that

really in many ways is designed to

destroy the family just to give you some

examples there's no real good in this

country there is no they create these

fast communities that you can go you can

rent like an apartment where they create

this false community setting there

in the center what is community there's

no community you live there 10 years you

never know you're late you won't know

its name you won't know I'm not making

this up because all of you have been in

this situation how can javis from Islam

the right of the neighbor people should

at least know their neighbors name they

should be communication between them now

part of this is the television and the

Muslims should just get rid of it and

i've seen so many time i know that there

are some people in this community we've

done that because they came to me they

told me you notice since i got rid of

the television my life totally changed i

have time i read worth i spend more time

with my family there's people that

opponents i know people but there's many

people you look at the man you work from

he go to the Miller as seven in the

morning he come back at seven at night

he sit down in front of the television

no conversation between the family no I

mean first of all how many time now

they're there already debunking that in