fact they say it's better just for the
mother to be with the child all day long
really know it than to have ten minutes
of quality time because she's working on
it baby you can leave their own research
on a quality time there already
debunking the myth of quality time
children need attention they need to
hear from the parents they need to get
hugs they need to be talked to and if
we're using the television and to raise
our children then first of all like the
Jewish rabbi in London when he was at
Aquinas community didn't have
televisions and said because we look at
it I have enough open surah in your
thoughts at room right a Jewish rabbi
same I know soon I'm telling you you
can't watch TV now now only they have a
program and I read about this stuff I
don't want
stuff and how do you I don't want it I
read about this program in Newsweek
where they have this moment Ellen
DeGeneres having a relationship with
another one and then kissing on the
television I mean first of my
heterosexual we don't do that to prote
Islam for the heterosexual but this is
this is actually promoting homosexual
relationship on prime-time television
you don't want your and you don't want
one of this another cent the inner eye
of the heart is more sensitive than the
outer arm in other word but posea to the
human being is more sensitive very high
you get a tiny little here and ride or a
piece of sands of the life and think
about that Iran shatter your balloon
well he used to memorize the entire road
at one reading and one day he went out
and a woman's at silwan dy and their
dress do a piece on her leg and maintain
his glance at it another look there and
he'd look at her face and he looked at
without turning immediately away he went
back he couldn't imagine that he read it
three four and five times he went to
over here and he said shakily lie low
key issue I can't leave out said Anita
thought kanimozhi famous lines I could
went to my teacher were here about
having a bad memory and he told me you
want to leave this reveals for the ball
because knowledge of this deal
nice and the light of Allah does not
even about that a disobedient one now
here's a man who actually felt a
profound difference in his ability to
acquire knowledge from looking at eleven
one time right this one time I mean
we're people watching pornography people
you know it's looking at all of this
field it's unbelievable where are the
hardest and then you wonder why you here
wow you don't get affected by it more
money you hear the Quran it doesn't move
your heart people don't cut one of the
scholars he said if you want to know
whether your part is alive or dead then
look whether your eye is moist or dry in
it's nice that you should know that your
heart is a lot if it's dry then you
should know your heart is good the
prophets enticing them said if you
recall and weep and if you can't leave
pretend to weep because to shut that
little army fella even to imitate the
new people is a type of success not in
front of other people but in the private
pretend to we if you cannot me if you
are watching all this what does that do
to the hardest you think it doesn't have
an effect can never run a European
mechanics you burn because of what they
were earning this is what destroyed
their hearts really these people where
they are appointed the chimi you know
they just kill their young people are
just shootin killin people without my
demeanor you think you're me
can do that you think you know the boat
Aaliyah be served the number one in
pornographic country right in Europe was
Yugoslavia they were producing more smut
in all of Eastern Europe right or even
their many magazines have pornographic
pictures of women so why should you be
surprised when these men go away 50,000
women why why you're surprised at that
they are living off the denigration the
deputation of women they seem every
single day why should they care and this
is what happens so television is
destructive to families i will divide
everybody read either their celebrants
you can read picture of truth for
arguments for elimination of television
read the drag and drop by with the
plug-in drug the evil online right these
are all studies they'll give you
documented studies of the destructive
effects the television how long family
documents studies of the positive
effects that happens for families when
they got rid of the television right but
i guarantee you read home you turn on
the television and in other words you
don't want to bother people in their
growth now they come we want a peaceful
silence plays of reflection where we can
actually think about our death and we're
going to ask whether they bring a
tractor and they dumped into a grade you
tell me where you come from
India Pakistan Afghanistan say they do
we do this to our dead in Muslim
countries more often do they do that
with its fast food and this is it you
know it just keep get it over with big
tractor come in and jump in stock it's
soulful music and then a pounding
machine when our portable item said that
we hear the sound of the sand pounding
machine blasting the soil into it right
so you don't have to come back to the
lair after the serves on contract and
after filling some more which is all do
it fast get it over with quick what are
we doing this for their right they
deserve better than support Kataya to
bear out that we should have our own
secretary we should have a network if
somebody buys people know that collector
themselves you will suddenly be sociable
is the best thing there should be 70
people at the funeral event we need to
survive that's why we go so very
prepared to make an exception for us to
make the other than 11 less activity
along with the residential area 11 ah
hello you know did with this was
community but now I'm saying this there
has to be one person in this room that
says you know you I can't do everything
all of you can there has to be something
you said plz fillery let's change the
condition one person that matter it just
taking one person in this room that says
I'm going to do something about this and
I'll say something that one
we'll do it and my god was going to live
for every single person that's dead
probably sensing Mecca we don't even
have the people facing Mecca properly
they give these grapes single now didn't
get us a compass out they don't lift
really i mean this is another area we
should have a room in here for bristles
which would be people that we have a
community as a group of people that are
committed to bettering washing the plan
to be touching the ferry teaching there
because a lot of people don't even know
we should have tip around here we have
the most we should have this the camera
these things to prevent our death right
we should have a car to take the body
prices we have get out and be lifting
things no this is what you know how many
people start not muslims in this area
there's people dying in the rain weather
there must be best we buried adult a
lady was not all right by him all night
is what we have to do to to to make a
real community where there's some care
and concern not just for living but for
the dead as well and and and it's a
blessing to go and visit those people
said amazing either I really we need
food one half and the other tips today
wow I used to tell you don't visit the
grave now I can you go visit them it's a
good thing to go to the graveyard of the
Muslims as they are so many other
sagaponack neurological insha'allah to
see said unto them to remind yourself of
where you're going to go we're all going
to be there and I don't want to it
everybody in the Anubis I don't want a
tractor I'm asking you all what if I
thought I don't know well right I do
yeah I'll rather be very thin I don't
want to tractor I want my Muslim
brothers to take their shadows and
bearing me like a human being not like a
doll you know really I mean that's one
area now just think that the brother
asked me just to distinguish because
time is getting up yeah just one thing
about the discipline the air the
Shenyang the website is you should not
be doing this you know bang your head on
the shop from Earth that they have no
terribly with that similar to Jesus
seven and seven making bigger sit and
don't feel tired he understands me I
graduated you study at neurophysiology
you'll know very clearly they don't you
can tell them two minutes later it's
it's forgotten completely before seven
there's no technique a logical directly
be nice to your children at seven
traditional set new management center
rather different abuse it a lot and in
the group you mentioned about one of the
hot tub that you shouldn't discipline
children sad and he said this is obvious
but we were never taught shown in the
Quran in other words you saying you
moved from after seven you need some
discipline with some children not all
children but some children but it should
not be a punishment it's not be done out
of anger right and in this country you
have to be very careful but the pair
would never get a child not once he
never hit a woman and he never hit a
servant not once and eat whatever they
are
canaletto sri lanka's wouldn't happen so
it may be some question and then we'll
stop and pray inshallah we get nearly 45
minutes yeah okay yeah that's true there
is a Muslim Cemetery in Liverpool little
more that I heard about and and we
should be supporting that you know and
it is off as well from Shelia it's
paying mind you're not supposed to waste
money in burying the dead like the
coffin and all this is all from their
culture it's not our tradition the dead
you're not even supposed to throw the
perfume and thing into the thing cuz
it's considered a software how to
preserve like the sense behind the
funeral out in the open air no I
understand that yes right now yeah i
understand it I mean there's the people
that did that they did oh then what
others about taste like yeah about tapes
about advises people nothing is people
watching ABC NBC CBS are any type of
things i will do that it's propaganda
you don't get used from there are
enormous elements watching
they proven that people watch TV news
don't know anything about what's going
on it's all top again you're not
learning anything that's going on if
people have television sets and they've
already started the investment or
whatever and they have programs that are
beneficial that's another matter not i'm
not really talking about that but i
would say about children be very careful
about your especially before the age of
seven giving them having given these
poems have a strong programs the more i
think about it the more powers meet and
i'll tell you because if you stay the
development of the bird and also as many
of the things that are being shown
there's too many excitement there's too
much children ruth to learn in
environment that are conducive to their
own levels in mind they're already too
cramped up no need to crack them up
anywhere with you know Sesame Street's
title from programs and things anything
mrs. Pritchard no you still have that
backup of your extended family yeah
about extended family if they're not
Muslim the family who is not Muslim has
the same color as the family that's
Muslim in fact even in shelley out your
parents at the National I did it the
right to the Muslim prayers except once
they die you don't you don't make broad
for them that's the ban the exact thing
people of the very right game on all of
those things they have the same you know
any look even in the shell yet so just a
woman who's a non Muslim woman if she's
married to her hustle man and they have
children she has the haunted they get
support I'm not missing women she had
the right to bring her children the
devil take the children just because he
says no she's a cancer as well why did
you see that when you married it right
now she's a cabin before he was
happiness
like a lot who didn't stays the same we
will not pay of Josie invention once he
said that it's not an indeed but there's
truth in the same no one leaves a thing
for the sake of Allah except Allah will
replace it for something better but when
Tim payment of the money said about that
saying he said Allah would not give you
something better immediately because he
wants to test your sincerity if you
leave something for the sake of Allah
Allah to replace it with something
better if you leave the television for
the sake of Allah Allah we will place it
for something better he will replace it
for something better right because
you're just introducing a food and your
family your drum you're depriving your
family your children at a time that they
should be given from the fathers and the
mothers right now the other thing about
the family is maintaining time are just
hung a few things about this community
we have people to get sick in this
community nobody knows nobody visits
that nobody asks about them we have
people who are dying in this community
nobody knows nobody asthma is a funky 5
you're supposed to go to feed the family
the people of the house you should go
and take them food right well I mean
this is what community is about and if
we're not doing these things then
nothing there's no community it's a lie
with pseudo community it's like me
virtual it become virtual community we
live on the email we send each other
emails right virtual community there's
no gatherings there's no necklace
there's no setup this is mike coming
together meaning and not just all this
mana larger you know i'm not saying
chocolate not just multi the drunk
person coming and you know give some
speech or something like human
interaction literally going and visiting
people in having human interaction and
not wasting our time with Muslims so the
human interaction should be based on
Ellen during our space when we come
together we should be talking about
things of substance not just empty talk
talking being people are substance young
people are dead just people getting
together and studying a book together
for money reading a book together take a
look if you don't know Arabic take the
book of set up five people you have some
friends get together and said let's read
this book and let's discuss the world
that's all you have to do just look some
some entrance even taking a group of
your truck we don't all have to be
rather we can I inner ourselves with our
I mean the I cannot natural relationship
with every single for the macmini
alright we cannot reach it you can you
can't help but you have to have a little
people then then there's some same ever
there's some companionship there's some
love firm that you take care of each
other and that extends out and it
primary should be the extended family
that in this situation many with normal
extended family here it should at least
be a group of brothers and have
something even if it's a culture was
nothing wrong with a group of Egyptian a
group that
there it shouldn't be for a surreal
another have just you know you exclude
other people but there's nothing wrong
with groups that share certain
characteristics and qualities language
ethnic background culture where these
are things that are joined in event
online again either to truly terrible
you know that will try and amazes we
come to know each other alright so this
is part of our reality Super Show and
arrive and then finally just a couple of
other things we have to have projects
that transcend simply are our work that
we're doing if you're working on a
computer company that cannot be here at
a money really and and it's better that
you quit your job and go do something as
where you can devote some time to our
walk and rattan and his messenger I mean
see the folly of the Welcome given it
out of you rubbing on who said the best
situation is a man he can give his wrist
in one or two days and he spent the rest
of his time for the sake of Allah
subhanAllah Dada and who isn't they used
to work you know they worked from after
the shiur earth and turn about two
o'clock and then that was done they were
done with our dunya and then they went
did the other thing really so you can't
have just your good marriage or any
projects you have to be financially
dedicated and also speed and an
otherwise those things in this community
we have groups Rahima is one of them
there are other ones you know just like
sister Aviva this is mainly doing this
bastard there's other people involved
and I can't name all them I don't
northerners but there are other people
involved you know this was started to
help some of the media list and there
it's been helping there's now she has
over 70 families that she's helping and
these are families that need help these
are Muslim families that need help and
people have to support in the community
financial have to go and say what can I
do welcome you know I'm just even
wanting about other examples in the
community but i'm using this morning up
what can I do sister is there anything
you need is there some help there has to
be some support people get burned out