On being kind to women and children

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Event Name: On being kind to women and children
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fact they say it's better just for the

mother to be with the child all day long

really know it than to have ten minutes

of quality time because she's working on

it baby you can leave their own research

on a quality time there already

debunking the myth of quality time

children need attention they need to

hear from the parents they need to get

hugs they need to be talked to and if

we're using the television and to raise

our children then first of all like the

Jewish rabbi in London when he was at

Aquinas community didn't have

televisions and said because we look at

it I have enough open surah in your

thoughts at room right a Jewish rabbi

same I know soon I'm telling you you

can't watch TV now now only they have a

program and I read about this stuff I

don't want

stuff and how do you I don't want it I

read about this program in Newsweek

where they have this moment Ellen

DeGeneres having a relationship with

another one and then kissing on the

television I mean first of my

heterosexual we don't do that to prote

Islam for the heterosexual but this is

this is actually promoting homosexual

relationship on prime-time television

you don't want your and you don't want

one of this another cent the inner eye

of the heart is more sensitive than the

outer arm in other word but posea to the

human being is more sensitive very high

you get a tiny little here and ride or a

piece of sands of the life and think

about that Iran shatter your balloon

well he used to memorize the entire road

at one reading and one day he went out

and a woman's at silwan dy and their

dress do a piece on her leg and maintain

his glance at it another look there and

he'd look at her face and he looked at

without turning immediately away he went

back he couldn't imagine that he read it

three four and five times he went to

over here and he said shakily lie low

key issue I can't leave out said Anita

thought kanimozhi famous lines I could

went to my teacher were here about

having a bad memory and he told me you

want to leave this reveals for the ball

because knowledge of this deal

nice and the light of Allah does not

even about that a disobedient one now

here's a man who actually felt a

profound difference in his ability to

acquire knowledge from looking at eleven

one time right this one time I mean

we're people watching pornography people

you know it's looking at all of this

field it's unbelievable where are the

hardest and then you wonder why you here

wow you don't get affected by it more

money you hear the Quran it doesn't move

your heart people don't cut one of the

scholars he said if you want to know

whether your part is alive or dead then

look whether your eye is moist or dry in

it's nice that you should know that your

heart is a lot if it's dry then you

should know your heart is good the

prophets enticing them said if you

recall and weep and if you can't leave

pretend to weep because to shut that

little army fella even to imitate the

new people is a type of success not in

front of other people but in the private

pretend to we if you cannot me if you

are watching all this what does that do

to the hardest you think it doesn't have

an effect can never run a European

mechanics you burn because of what they

were earning this is what destroyed

their hearts really these people where

they are appointed the chimi you know

they just kill their young people are

just shootin killin people without my

demeanor you think you're me

can do that you think you know the boat

Aaliyah be served the number one in

pornographic country right in Europe was

Yugoslavia they were producing more smut

in all of Eastern Europe right or even

their many magazines have pornographic

pictures of women so why should you be

surprised when these men go away 50,000

women why why you're surprised at that

they are living off the denigration the

deputation of women they seem every

single day why should they care and this

is what happens so television is

destructive to families i will divide

everybody read either their celebrants

you can read picture of truth for

arguments for elimination of television

read the drag and drop by with the

plug-in drug the evil online right these

are all studies they'll give you

documented studies of the destructive

effects the television how long family

documents studies of the positive

effects that happens for families when

they got rid of the television right but

i guarantee you read home you turn on

the television and in other words you

don't want to bother people in their

growth now they come we want a peaceful

silence plays of reflection where we can

actually think about our death and we're

going to ask whether they bring a

tractor and they dumped into a grade you

tell me where you come from

India Pakistan Afghanistan say they do

we do this to our dead in Muslim

countries more often do they do that

with its fast food and this is it you

know it just keep get it over with big

tractor come in and jump in stock it's

soulful music and then a pounding

machine when our portable item said that

we hear the sound of the sand pounding

machine blasting the soil into it right

so you don't have to come back to the

lair after the serves on contract and

after filling some more which is all do

it fast get it over with quick what are

we doing this for their right they

deserve better than support Kataya to

bear out that we should have our own

secretary we should have a network if

somebody buys people know that collector

themselves you will suddenly be sociable

is the best thing there should be 70

people at the funeral event we need to

survive that's why we go so very

prepared to make an exception for us to

make the other than 11 less activity

along with the residential area 11 ah

hello you know did with this was

community but now I'm saying this there

has to be one person in this room that

says you know you I can't do everything

all of you can there has to be something

you said plz fillery let's change the

condition one person that matter it just

taking one person in this room that says

I'm going to do something about this and

I'll say something that one

we'll do it and my god was going to live

for every single person that's dead

probably sensing Mecca we don't even

have the people facing Mecca properly

they give these grapes single now didn't

get us a compass out they don't lift

really i mean this is another area we

should have a room in here for bristles

which would be people that we have a

community as a group of people that are

committed to bettering washing the plan

to be touching the ferry teaching there

because a lot of people don't even know

we should have tip around here we have

the most we should have this the camera

these things to prevent our death right

we should have a car to take the body

prices we have get out and be lifting

things no this is what you know how many

people start not muslims in this area

there's people dying in the rain weather

there must be best we buried adult a

lady was not all right by him all night

is what we have to do to to to make a

real community where there's some care

and concern not just for living but for

the dead as well and and and it's a

blessing to go and visit those people

said amazing either I really we need

food one half and the other tips today

wow I used to tell you don't visit the

grave now I can you go visit them it's a

good thing to go to the graveyard of the

Muslims as they are so many other

sagaponack neurological insha'allah to

see said unto them to remind yourself of

where you're going to go we're all going

to be there and I don't want to it

everybody in the Anubis I don't want a

tractor I'm asking you all what if I

thought I don't know well right I do

yeah I'll rather be very thin I don't

want to tractor I want my Muslim

brothers to take their shadows and

bearing me like a human being not like a

doll you know really I mean that's one

area now just think that the brother

asked me just to distinguish because

time is getting up yeah just one thing

about the discipline the air the

Shenyang the website is you should not

be doing this you know bang your head on

the shop from Earth that they have no

terribly with that similar to Jesus

seven and seven making bigger sit and

don't feel tired he understands me I

graduated you study at neurophysiology

you'll know very clearly they don't you

can tell them two minutes later it's

it's forgotten completely before seven

there's no technique a logical directly

be nice to your children at seven

traditional set new management center

rather different abuse it a lot and in

the group you mentioned about one of the

hot tub that you shouldn't discipline

children sad and he said this is obvious

but we were never taught shown in the

Quran in other words you saying you

moved from after seven you need some

discipline with some children not all

children but some children but it should

not be a punishment it's not be done out

of anger right and in this country you

have to be very careful but the pair

would never get a child not once he

never hit a woman and he never hit a

servant not once and eat whatever they


canaletto sri lanka's wouldn't happen so

it may be some question and then we'll

stop and pray inshallah we get nearly 45

minutes yeah okay yeah that's true there

is a Muslim Cemetery in Liverpool little

more that I heard about and and we

should be supporting that you know and

it is off as well from Shelia it's

paying mind you're not supposed to waste

money in burying the dead like the

coffin and all this is all from their

culture it's not our tradition the dead

you're not even supposed to throw the

perfume and thing into the thing cuz

it's considered a software how to

preserve like the sense behind the

funeral out in the open air no I

understand that yes right now yeah i

understand it I mean there's the people

that did that they did oh then what

others about taste like yeah about tapes

about advises people nothing is people

watching ABC NBC CBS are any type of

things i will do that it's propaganda

you don't get used from there are

enormous elements watching

they proven that people watch TV news

don't know anything about what's going

on it's all top again you're not

learning anything that's going on if

people have television sets and they've

already started the investment or

whatever and they have programs that are

beneficial that's another matter not i'm

not really talking about that but i

would say about children be very careful

about your especially before the age of

seven giving them having given these

poems have a strong programs the more i

think about it the more powers meet and

i'll tell you because if you stay the

development of the bird and also as many

of the things that are being shown

there's too many excitement there's too

much children ruth to learn in

environment that are conducive to their

own levels in mind they're already too

cramped up no need to crack them up

anywhere with you know Sesame Street's

title from programs and things anything

mrs. Pritchard no you still have that

backup of your extended family yeah

about extended family if they're not

Muslim the family who is not Muslim has

the same color as the family that's

Muslim in fact even in shelley out your

parents at the National I did it the

right to the Muslim prayers except once

they die you don't you don't make broad

for them that's the ban the exact thing

people of the very right game on all of

those things they have the same you know

any look even in the shell yet so just a

woman who's a non Muslim woman if she's

married to her hustle man and they have

children she has the haunted they get

support I'm not missing women she had

the right to bring her children the

devil take the children just because he

says no she's a cancer as well why did

you see that when you married it right

now she's a cabin before he was


like a lot who didn't stays the same we

will not pay of Josie invention once he

said that it's not an indeed but there's

truth in the same no one leaves a thing

for the sake of Allah except Allah will

replace it for something better but when

Tim payment of the money said about that

saying he said Allah would not give you

something better immediately because he

wants to test your sincerity if you

leave something for the sake of Allah

Allah to replace it with something

better if you leave the television for

the sake of Allah Allah we will place it

for something better he will replace it

for something better right because

you're just introducing a food and your

family your drum you're depriving your

family your children at a time that they

should be given from the fathers and the

mothers right now the other thing about

the family is maintaining time are just

hung a few things about this community

we have people to get sick in this

community nobody knows nobody visits

that nobody asks about them we have

people who are dying in this community

nobody knows nobody asthma is a funky 5

you're supposed to go to feed the family

the people of the house you should go

and take them food right well I mean

this is what community is about and if

we're not doing these things then

nothing there's no community it's a lie

with pseudo community it's like me

virtual it become virtual community we

live on the email we send each other

emails right virtual community there's

no gatherings there's no necklace

there's no setup this is mike coming

together meaning and not just all this

mana larger you know i'm not saying

chocolate not just multi the drunk

person coming and you know give some

speech or something like human

interaction literally going and visiting

people in having human interaction and

not wasting our time with Muslims so the

human interaction should be based on

Ellen during our space when we come

together we should be talking about

things of substance not just empty talk

talking being people are substance young

people are dead just people getting

together and studying a book together

for money reading a book together take a

look if you don't know Arabic take the

book of set up five people you have some

friends get together and said let's read

this book and let's discuss the world

that's all you have to do just look some

some entrance even taking a group of

your truck we don't all have to be

rather we can I inner ourselves with our

I mean the I cannot natural relationship

with every single for the macmini

alright we cannot reach it you can you

can't help but you have to have a little

people then then there's some same ever

there's some companionship there's some

love firm that you take care of each

other and that extends out and it

primary should be the extended family

that in this situation many with normal

extended family here it should at least

be a group of brothers and have

something even if it's a culture was

nothing wrong with a group of Egyptian a

group that

there it shouldn't be for a surreal

another have just you know you exclude

other people but there's nothing wrong

with groups that share certain

characteristics and qualities language

ethnic background culture where these

are things that are joined in event

online again either to truly terrible

you know that will try and amazes we

come to know each other alright so this

is part of our reality Super Show and

arrive and then finally just a couple of

other things we have to have projects

that transcend simply are our work that

we're doing if you're working on a

computer company that cannot be here at

a money really and and it's better that

you quit your job and go do something as

where you can devote some time to our

walk and rattan and his messenger I mean

see the folly of the Welcome given it

out of you rubbing on who said the best

situation is a man he can give his wrist

in one or two days and he spent the rest

of his time for the sake of Allah

subhanAllah Dada and who isn't they used

to work you know they worked from after

the shiur earth and turn about two

o'clock and then that was done they were

done with our dunya and then they went

did the other thing really so you can't

have just your good marriage or any

projects you have to be financially

dedicated and also speed and an

otherwise those things in this community

we have groups Rahima is one of them

there are other ones you know just like

sister Aviva this is mainly doing this

bastard there's other people involved

and I can't name all them I don't

northerners but there are other people

involved you know this was started to

help some of the media list and there

it's been helping there's now she has

over 70 families that she's helping and

these are families that need help these

are Muslim families that need help and

people have to support in the community

financial have to go and say what can I

do welcome you know I'm just even

wanting about other examples in the

community but i'm using this morning up

what can I do sister is there anything

you need is there some help there has to

be some support people get burned out